After five years of reading sex related news, studies, and articles I have made two noteworthy observations: The key to maintaining good mental and physical health is having regular sex, and the key to having regular sex is staying healthy mentally and physically.
Positive wellbeing is a self-perpetuating machine and the trick to keeping it going is to do as much as you can in any little way to help yourself. There’s no black and white guide to keeping your love life healthy just as there isn’t a single thing you can do to make yourself happy. You just have to keep doing all of the little things and ignore all the bullshit.
For example when I read an article that suggested smart phones are among the top reasons couples cited as contributing to relationship problems, I took the information with a grain of salt.
A survey of 175 adults indicated that “phubbing,” or paying too much attention to one’s phone instead of a significant other, was directly linked to reduced levels of satisfaction with a relationship. Hmm!
The results of their survey confirm the findings of similar studies that say spending too much time on a smartphone is as big of a problem to troubled relationships as sex and money. As the article goes on to explain “phubbing” is a very broad way to describe a range of behaviors.
Ah, the Sybian, that mythical beast of a sex toy that has brought many a woman to her knees. Often touted as the ultimate sex toy, the Sybian is not cheap and it’s not exactly a discreet toy either. You need storage space for this beauty. Preferrably a cart with wheels that will fit perfectly in your closet. Just roll it out when you want to take it out for a spin.
I’m not sure who started this trend of filming ladies doing random activities, like solving math problems or singing carols, while straddling a Sybian… probably Howard Stern he seems to be all about it… but we should all take a moment to thank— Nope, can’t thank Howard Stern and his dude bros, they’re all creepy fucks.
I just can’t do it. I love and adore all the ladies in these videos and I enjoy watching them get off, but the dude bros hanging around… I wish they would stay behind the cameras.
“I donated some of my money to Planned Parenthood in Mike Pence’s name,” says Ari. “I found that doubly funny, because it’s money that I literally made by prostituting myself.”
In the week after the election, Ari also sent money to New York’s Ali Forney Center and Audre Lorde Project, two organizations that she says “specifically work with trans youth of color, and a huge portion of those youth do survival sex work.”
Twenty-five-year-old stripper Tamra Horner, who also dances in Portland, called election week “devastating” and recalled being disturbed by news reports of harassment and violence against women, Muslims, LGBT couples and people of color. She quickly decided to carve out a portion of that week’s total profits.
A hoe never gets cold, which is why Cardi B is bare-legged and coatless when she shows up to meet me just a couple of days after winter storm Jonas immobilized much of the east coast earlier this year. The 23-year-old is sheathed in a slinky gold dress, paired with monstrous red heels from which her toes—nails painted lavender—burst forth into the January freeze. I can’t imagine a pair of gloves that could possibly contain the bedazzled gray manicure that gives her slight fingers the appearance of being several inches longer than they are. Cardi may look ridiculous standing next to the mountains of snow piled on the sidewalk, but she does not look cold. She prophesied as much to her millions of followers a year ago in an Instagram video promoting a wintertime appearance at a Toronto strip club. “Canada, it’s cold outside but I’m still looking like a thotty,” she says in the clip, twirling around a hotel hallway in a tiny top.
In her personal life, Kristen Scott is in a long term relationship with a woman. When she first started off in porn she was only doing solo and girl-girl scenes, but as she started to get more work she moved from North California to South California and within a year she was doing boy-girl scenes due to the constant demand from her fans.
These days she’s doing interracial and anal scenes and people are crazy about the petite brunette. At 5’2″ and 99lbs, she’s got one of those bodies you can just spin right round, right round… like a record, baby. Right round.
Even though she lost that innocent girl-next-door persona she’s still young and fresh, as well as cute and desirable to totally steal some dude’s words from Adult DVD Talk forum. Her fans all agree that she has a great screen presence, she stays in the moment throughout all her scenes and her sexuality jumps up at you grabs you by the balls.
I wonder what her girlfriend looks like? It would be amazing if the two of them would do a scene together. You all know my love of pornstar couples. I have yet to add a girl-girl couple to the list of my favorites.
Yup, that’s definitely what’s missing from my life. Someone go find me some female pornstar couples to obsess about STAT. DO IT! I’ll be eternally grateful. I don’t care how you get the info, just get it for me!
Circumcision is a very controversial subject for both new parents and people who like to argue about absolutely anything on the internet. Some have the procedure done as infants because of religious or cultural traditions, while others consider the act to be based on outdated health standards and opt not to have it done to […]
Lawyers make a metric fuckton of money, right? I mean, that’s the word on the street. I’ve only fucked a handful of cocks that went to law school, and none of them ever stuck around long enough for me to find out the details on their financials. I guess, it makes sense though. Law school […]
It’s that time of year again, Peepz! The holiday season means tons of bargains on everything from video games to sex toys…I purchased a few for my collection this year to fill in some gaps…wet gaps that were begging for some attention. Retail therapy is nice, but in order to relieve a whole lot of […]
Calico Rudasil is a feature columnist for Sssh.com, the award-winning porn site for women & couples. With over 18 years’ experience under her belt, writing about and for the adult entertainment industry, Calico qualifies as something of a Web Porn Dinosaur; similar to a tyrannosaurus, only with far more attractive arms and a less pronounced […]
When the Sex Is Great, but You Suck at Sleeping Next to Each Other (Broadly) As an insomniac, I don’t really fall asleep—I manipulate my body into depths of unconsciousness through routine, gear, and medication. I require a sleeping mask, ear plugs, and Ambien. Ideally, I’d go to bed sometime around or after midnight, and sleep […]