Ask jd is your chance to ask world famous adult star and sex educator jessica drake your questions about sex, dating, and the world of adult entertainment, check out this week’s installment and feel free to leave your own questions in the comments!
I have a question that has been on my mind a lot lately. I am a straight male, with a very hot girlfriend. At times I watch porno, sometimes I love to watch TS porn. I have watched TS porn for years. I am not into men, but find Tgirls to be very sexy.
In my travels to SF Bay before I was in a committed long term relationship, I did experiment with a hot asian TS that danced at a local club. I had an awesome time, without getting into specifics I tried somethings I didn’t think I would ever do! Not something I would ever repeat, but I do sometimes like to watch T girl porn. Is it normal/healthy to be attracted to T girls? What about watching T-girl porn? Any advice would be much appreciated.
The fetish for TS porn and TS experimentation is more common than one might expect. When I host my radio show, I get numerous calls from guys who appreciate the anonymity of the phone lines to eagerly discuss their fascination. I think that just about ANY sexual fetish is normal or healthy, as long as it does not involve animals or children or hurt someone that does not want to be hurt. As long as it is between two (or more) consenting adults, I say go for it.
NOW, if you are actually engaging in any type of sexual activity with anyone, TS or otherwise in addition to the girl you are in a relationship with, you should disclose this to your partner, AND practice safe(er) sex. It is not fair to put someone at risk for HIV or STIs by having multiple partners, especially when they have no idea you are not being monogamous.
On a personal side note, I think you are very lucky to be in touch with your fetish, and be so open- at least with me- discussing it. So many people spend their whole lives trying to find out their sexual triggers, and then longer trying to make peace with whatever turns them on. Enjoy your TS girls!
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