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Hi guys!
I’m Wicked Pictures contract star jessica drake, and I want to welcome you to today’s installment of Ask jd on Peeperz. You’ve seen my XXX Wicked movies, you may have heard me on my weekly Sirius/XM radio show, IN BED with jessica drake, and you might even follow me on twitter- (twitter.com/thejessicadrake) but this is the only place for you to ask me just about anything- like dating and relationship advice, tips on how to be a better lover, and yes, even those oh-so-embarrassing sex questions you were always too shy to ask.
I’m a 24 year old woman and I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 years and we fuck allll the time but I don’t know how I can make things more interesting. I feel like we’re always doing the same things. We’ve done all positions possible, and he doesn’t like sex toys. We both really want to have a threesome with another girl but I don’t know how to get over my jealousy (I want her all to myself haha) and how to find someone (besides craigslist which I don’t trust)…. any advice on how to spice things up would be a great help. thanks!
- Ashley
Hi Ashley, first of all, just the fact that you wrote me because you want to please him and help yourself out as well really says something about you. Indeed, 8 years IS a long time to be with someone, and it’s natural for sex to change over time. Personally, I think that when done right, there’s no harm in bringing another person into your bedroom- just as long as it’s not his best friend when he’s not around.
I’d discuss it with him first, and maybe set some boundaries…some couples are OK with oral only, some won’t kiss others, some won’t do any type of “fluid exchange”. I’m sure some things will bother either one or both of you, but that’s natural.
As far as finding someone, I’m sure there are swinger’s clubs in your area- and that in itself might give you the spice you’re looking for- the chance to have sex with each other in a room full of naked people can be quite the turn-on. You can also usually find a few single girls as well, or men that get off on seeing their wife/girlfriend with other people. It’s also important to remember that the person you’re adding to your lovemaking/fucking/screwing/swinging from the curtains is just that- a PERSON. He or she deserves to be paid enough attention to so they don’t feel “used”- unless that’s how they want to feel. I hear your concerns with jealousy, and that’s normal, you just have to experiment and try to find that middle ground. I could go on forever about this if i had time, I’ll let you guys all know when my “Threeways” instructional comes out. Good luck, and let me know how it goes.
xoxo, j
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