Q & A With Camille Crimson: Getting This Threesome Going

Camille!

My girlfriend is bi-curious but has never been with a woman. While drunk she’s talked about wanting to have a threesome some day but when I try to bring it up any other time she gets super nervous and unsure. Is there someway I can get this going? I really want to have a g/g/b threesome with her sometime but I also don’t to make her jealous by paying too much attention to the other girl. Help?

- Steve

Hi Steve,

This is definitely a very interesting and multi-layered scenario, Steve. I think the most important thing is to remove “drunk” from the equation and try it again- have a talk with her when she’s sober. Mentioning that you know it’s something she has expressed some interest in while drinking and that it’s something that you would really like to try as well.

When she gets nervous and unsure, ask her what in particular is going through her mind. What are her concerns? Perhaps she’s nervous about her level of attraction to women. Maybe she’s worried about how it would impact your relationship. She could think that it will lead you to have unrealistic expectations for your sex life moving forward.

I think you hit the nail on the head in terms of jealousy being a likely component here. It’s often the case in situations like this. The best thing you can do is be very upfront that you are thinking of her concerns and that you want to do the best you can to either assuage them upfront or be attentive in the moment.

Ask her what you can do to help. Maybe read up on the subject online, consider booking a one-time appointment with a sex-positive relationship counselor or just start out talking about it in a sexy context. Play through the fantasy together while it’s just the two of you and see how you feel, it might excite her and push things towards the next level.

Ultimately, it’s a good idea for you to take it slow and ease her into all of this. You’re in no hurry, but a threesome won’t be fun unless you’re all on board. Even once you are, it takes time to find the right girl, so patience will be very useful. Continue to foster an environment of respect and care for her feelings and things will evolve.

Every week here on Peeperz.com, Camille Crimson tackles sex advice, tips, techniques, and your questions about the adult industry. Camille’s the stunning, curvy, redhead who is the face, the voice, and the mouth, of TheArtofBlowjob.com. She’s also at the helm of the beautiful porn movement, espousing the idea that porn can be sensual, respectful and beautiful… but still be really really hot! If you want to ask her anything leave it in the comment’s section below and hit up the previous installments here: Q & A With Camille Crimson

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