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Bonjour Camille:
I am a newlywed and I am having a hard time giving a satisfying blowjob to my husband. I am fine for the first 2/3 of the act of blowjob but I have a problem with the finish. Let’s just say that he gets too big for my mouth and the happy ending isn’t as happy as it could be. Do you have any tips or can you direct me to any of your videos that could help me give a successful blowjob? It would mean a lot.
- Newlywed Tess
Hi Tess,
That’s a fairly common problem, actually, especially for the large penised or small mouthed among us. Obviously, it’s impossible to gauge how great the size disparity is without actually seeing you in action, so I’ll try to skirt around the specifics. Essentially, once he gets hard and swollen to full arousal, he’s too much for your mouth. This could mean one of two things… Either you have difficulty deep throating him when he’s fully erect or you have trouble even keeping his penis in your mouth to an average degree.
Lucky for us, the solution is pretty much the same either way. If you have trouble deep throating him when he’s fully erect, you just need to go easy on yourself while still trying at least a little bit each time. You may never double as a sword-swallower, but just continued attempts will yield some progress. If you’re finding it hard to even keep him in your mouth, I have the same advice. Keep your mouth on him as much as you can and continue to attempt to slide him slightly further in, even if only for a few second at a time, at least a few times during the more difficult part of the blowjob.
The big thing here is the use of hand and the use of external mouth stimulation. Stroking the base or even the mid-point of his shaft, with one hand or with both hands wrapped around, is a perfectly legitimate and very pleasure-oriented way of spicing up a blowjob. You can kiss his cockhead, flick your tongue over it at varying speeds and pressures, lick up from his balls to the tip, part your lips and slide up and down one side of his shaft… There are so many ways to make him feel good. You can also put his shaft between your breasts and suck or lick him as the tip pokes out the top. All of that feels amazing.
It’s also important for you to be honest with him without being defeatist or exasperated. You want to know what sensations he likes so you can tailor the blowjob acoutrements to his liking, but you also want him to know that you’re trying and you’re enthusiastic about it.
He would probably have a hard time taking a fully erect cock, so he’ll understand and feel really pleased and loved that you’re so committed to his pleasure.
Ultimately, it’s likely to not be that big a deal. You’re clearly focused on making him feel good, so you’ll find a way to do that and he’ll love it. He’s a lucky guy and you should be proud of yourself for being sexually open and honest. Bravo!
Every week here on Peeperz.com, Camille Crimson tackles sex advice, tips, techniques, and your questions about the adult industry. Camille’s the stunning, curvy, redhead who is the face, the voice, and the mouth, of TheArtofBlowjob.com. She’s also at the helm of the beautiful porn movement, espousing the idea that porn can be sensual, respectful and beautiful… but still be really really hot! If you want to ask her anything leave it in the comment’s section below and hit up the previous installments here: Q & A With Camille Crimson
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