For divorced women struggling to mend the pieces of their broken hearts, casual sex might just be the answer.
Though certainly not always the case, women tend to take these things the hardest while men try to dress and act like they’re 10 years younger to amusing consequences. According to love guru Janis Spindel of the Huffington Post, this is because women are more likely to find difficulty in connecting with a new partner while men have no problem moving on.
Women may feel the physical desire to explore their sexual side after a committed relationship but due to complicated feelings stemming from a want to connect emotionally with their partner, avoid acting on it. She suggests that women simply learn to enjoy no strings attached sex to rebuild their confidence and discover what they want out of their next relationship, and also because sex feels really good.
Granted, not all women have such complex emotions associated with sex.
A quick glance at the XTube personals will verify that plenty of women enjoy sex for what it is – a mutual genital massage. Likewise, a lot of women come out of long term relationships feeling liberated and ready to start their love lives over. I’m old enough to have friends that not only got married, but have gone through bitter divorces. I’ve seen people handle this with varying degrees of grace. Everybody deals with things their own way, but sometimes they need a little bit of help.
If you’re a recently divorced man or woman who has fleshly desires but can’t get over your previous lover, do yourself a favor and find someone else in a similar situation and help each other out.