Dee Siren, “the hot wife you wish you had” is one of the newest MILFs to take over the porno scene, besides ruling in porno, she’s also becoming well known for being a sex therapist and for giving advice on the swingers’ scene. She’s here on Peeperz with a series of guides to make sex easier for us all.
Many people see anal sex as taboo. They connect it with being homosexual and/or dirty, or think it’s painful. If anal sex is done right, then it can become part of a couple’s normal sex routine. Both the man and the woman can enjoy new sensations from anal sex. The man will enjoy the tightening around the penis of the sphincter muscles, giving him great pleasure from thrusting inside of the woman’s anus. Women have many nerve endings and will enjoy indirect contact with the G-spot from inside the anus, these will give her strong and uncontrollable orgasms.
Many couples can enjoy the new and exciting world of anal sex using a few simple tips:
1. Make sure you are CLEAN
You will feel more comfortable and open to anal play, if you know you are clean. Knowing you are going to try anal sex, you should try to eat lightly, so that the cleansing process is not so difficult. I personally use an enema when I am planning on enjoying a session of anal sex. Just make sure to clean yourself out, so that there are no embarrassing accidents.
2. Lube, Lube, Lube
Unlike the vagina, the anus is not a self-lubricating region. You will want to use lots of lube. Choose your favorite. I would suggest a gel type of lube, rather than a liquid, only because it stays in place longer and is thicker. The more lube the better so don’t feel bad when you tell your partner to lube it up. Trust me, it will make anal sex much more pleasurable.
3. Take it slowly
Have your partner play with your ass, licking your asshole and stretching it slowly with their tongue. Slowly inserting the tongue into the anus and then licking in a circular manner will not only help to open up the anus, but also will stimulate your partner. I am not one for having my ass fingered, but it does not hurt to try fingers in the beginning. Slowly insert a finger covered in lube and stretch the muscles, that way she is getting used to the new sensations.
4. Choose a comfortable position
Most women are more comfortable during anal sex if they are in the missionary position. This will allow the anus to open up naturally and allow her to relax. Once she is relaxed and becomes more at ease with anal sex, then you can move on to the ever-loved doggie position so that he can enjoy the view.
5. Slow & Deep
Once your partner has inserted the tip of the penis, ask him to push slowly into the anus. She should breathe deeply and relax, as he is pushing his penis deeper and deeper into the ass. Most women really enjoy anal sex, if the penis is pushed nice and deep into the ass.
6. Go with the rhythm
Guys, remember to never force it in or she will tighten her sphincter muscles, making it uncomfortable and possibly impossible for you to continue fucking her ass. Make it at a gentle and comfortable pace for you. And guys, you can’t expect to just bang away at the ass like it is a pussy. It doesn’t work the same. Once she is feeling good, then you can slowly increase the speed and if done right eventually fuck her ass just like it was her pussy. Just be PATIENT.
7. Remember, it is still intimate
Even though you may be having the “forbidden” sex. Don’t forget this is your partner and you need to be very sensual and loving during this time. I love when I am being fucking in the ass nice and deep, while my partner is kissing on me and holding my body tight. It can be a very loving and sexy experience.
As with all sex, it is important to talk. Make sure to communicate with each other and tell your partner what your feeling and what they can do to make the experience something you will want to do on a regular basis. Trust me ladies, if your guy gets to fuck your ass, then you will have him under your thumb. Hee hee!