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We’re trying this new feature on Peeperz where we have YOU, one of the Peeperz readers, take over the blog for a post. This installment is all about sex advice, we got peepz out there to submit sex and dating questions and reader “Kitty Commando” has provided the answers.
Here’s the bio provided by our guest columnist: ”Podcaster, PC Gamer, Stand Up Comic, and Ex-Webcam Model. You want to know, and I want to tell you.”
I get pretty much turned on by anything and everything, when I’m alone, but when I’m with someone else im so uptight and scared I cant even stay hard….?
- andy543217
Hi Andy,
If a video on the human body in 6th grade has taught me anything… it’s that sex is a magical moment that you share with someone you love AND ONLY AFTER MARRAGE! I went to Catholic school though. Truth is sex is a magical moment you share after a few shots of tequila with the first girl that is willing to put out.
I’ve run across this before. My erection comes when we’re both sitting on the couch waiting to find a time to make a move… that or at a bar when only so much fondling can be done. Its the anticipation that causes the most excitement. Once intercourse is occurring you lose that excitement.
My reasons for this were either:
A) Sex seems like a repetitive task
B) She’s not moaning or seem like shes enjoying it
C) She’s a special girl to you and you feel an emotional attachment that you’re afraid will be lost if you don’t perform right.
If it’s for reason A, you need to mix it up. Try different sex positions. Try emulating moves that you see in porn. Pornhub has a wide variety of videos, Im sure you’ll come across something you would like to try.
For reason B… because shes not moaning doesn’t mean shes not enjoying it. She may just be a quiet girl. As her partner try moaning and see if she goes along with it. If all else fails, tell her to moan. A girl moaning during sex should be the motivation you need to give her the ride of her life.
Reason C… this one is difficult, but sex is important in any relationship. Try mixing things up with different locations or aids. If you like watching porn amd it helps. Watch some porn with her. Do not forget the foreplay! Foreplay creates that excitement that keeps each other wanting more. Theres no need to rush through it. Foreplay is just as fun as the sex that will follow.
If these reasons dont sound like you, let me know and we can try to come up with a solution that best fits your needs.
I’m a sexually experienced young woman but my new boyfriend’s basically a virgin, how do I break him in?
-Hotstuff
Hey there Hotstuff,
Well depends, what do you mean by “Basically a Virgin” has he done mouth whoopy, but not vaginal whoopy? Its a very thin line between virgin and not virgin. Once penetration occurs, the virginity is lost. Essentially if you sit on your couch the wrong way and forget your TV remote is there… you lost your virginity.
That being said, most men want sex. What might be holding him back is shyness or nervousness. Personally I fall under the shy catagory. I wait for the girl to make the first move. Try making the move. Depending on how shy he is will depend on how far you have to go before he gets into it.
If you make it to the hand job and he is still too shy to make a move try moving his hand and showing him. Make him feel at ease. Virgins are like deer… you dont want to move to fast or you’ll scare him away. Remember he will be nervous the first time so constant reassurance and moaning will make him feel like he’s doing a good job and increase his confidence for next time.
Good luck, let me know how it works out!
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