Masturbation After Sex? Let’s Talk About It

by Alpha Harlot on March 21, 2018

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Masturbation is the best. As much as I absolutely love fucking my wife, sometimes I need to feel the type of orgasm that I can only give myself…the quick, fast, in a hurry kind that erupts intensely so I can get on with my day. Making love to my wife is different. It’s passionate, teasing and slow.

Sometimes neither of us orgasm…sometimes we both cum all over the place multiple times…but we always communicate with each other what we need, whether it’s stopping or going in harder. It’s the talking and the body language that tells me if I’m doing the things that my babe needs me to do…Occasionally, we’re both tired and need to get to sleep, so we’ll make out and masturbate together. It’s sexy…and it’s something we enjoy doing.

Some guy wrote in to The Guardian’s sex advice columnist and had a question about his girlfriend’s masturbation habits. The question and the odd response have been bouncing all over my twitter feed for the past week or so.

He wrote:

I have been in a relationship for nine months. I thought the sex was good for us both, but when we finish she tells me to shower. I wondered why, and now I know – she masturbates. She has done it multiple times; I think she is insatiable. What should I do?

and the answer he was given by a psychotherapist named Pamela Stephenson Connolly was:

Do nothing.

with a much longer explanation following.

Do nothing?

How about if you ask your girlfriend if she wants to be licked after you’ve shot your load?

I’m going to legit admit that I have done the exact same thing as this guy’s girlfriend with SO.MANY.PARTNERS.

Want to know why?

Because they weren’t making me cum.

No matter what I dirty talked…no matter where I put their hands onto my body…no matter how many times I explained before, during and after HOW I need to be touched in order to orgasm, the male partners in question didn’t get it and left me hung out to dry.

That shit sucks and it gets tiring.

Everyone needs to speak up during sex. That’s how good sex happens.

I mean, unless you’re bound and gagged, but hopefully at that point you’ve already had a conversation about your kink.

Here’s a real orgasm masturbation clip to help out the cause:

Masturbating together or solo isn’t a bad thing, Peepz…Communication is essential always though. Ask your partner how they like to be touched, even if you think you already know.

Source: The Guardian

Image: Ariella Ferrera in The Finer Things in Life by Brazzers

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